It is scary to think how easy we let media and people with a big name influence us and not stop for a moment and really think for ourselves. People listen to “Born this way” by lady Gaga and think that she´s right. It is a lie!! It sounds good, but put it into action.. That means people can justify every action they do by saying “I was born this way”. That means serialkillers and childmolesters are not bad people, they just couldn´t help themselves. Wrong! We are responsible for our behavior. Be careful of what you let in to your heart.
We all have a choice, it´s only a series of bad choices and maybe a bad childhood that leads to something so horrible, and that´s so sad! But it´s our own choice where we´re going and what we are gonna do about the stuff the world throws at us. Life is not fair sometimes, but are you gonna lay down in the dirt without even trying to get up?
We can choose to let a bad experience affect us and control our behavior or we can rise above it. We are all gonna meet roadblocks in life or hard times, no one escapes it. Wether it is you´re having an argument with your wife or you get into an accident and break your leg (and your a professional footballer). Are you taking the “easy” way out and divorce her? Or are you gonna retire just because you can´t play for two months? It´s up to you to decide, but long term wise, a quick fix is not necessarily a good fix. Change your attitude, have a positive look on things and you have come very far. Where are you now? Are you capable of taking good decisions even in hard times? Or are you taking the easy way out?
Remember, a conflict is a place for us to grow, were we can be tested, if you haven´t faced a conflict before, how are you gonna handle it? And if you fall, just rise again. But please don´t stay down and say “I was born this way”.